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Dietary Transformation from the Inside Out

Access a powerful sense of inner authority and self-trust. In food and diet…and beyond.

Course Content

  • Preliminaries
  • Self-Guided Journey Overview
  • Session 1: Inner Authority
  • Session 2: Displaced Desire
  • Session 3: Pleasure and Pain
  • Session 4: Liberation from Self-forcing
  • Session 5: The Symphony of Vibrations
  • Additional Material: Mini-Sessions
  • Donation Adjustment

Session Four: Liberation from Self-forcing

Session Four Liberation from Self-forcing

If you can’t MAKE yourself change, how can you change? How can we liberate ourselves from conditional self-approval and self-rejection?

This session I’m going to ask you to take bold steps to end the war against the self, a struggle that can be quite hidden. I’ll be asking you to examine the part of yourself that strives for control, that justifies and condemns, approves and disapproves, and tries to exert self-discipline through conditional approval and rejection. Only by releasing that and allowing ourselves the full experience of our choices, undistorted by judgement, can desire be a reliable guide. And then we are free.

And remember, as I said in the last session: This isn’t some kind of puzzle that you have to figure out by force of logic. It’s not that hard. It’s just a matter of exercising your most basic power as a sentient being, as a sensing being: the power of attention. Everything else flows from that.

A Short Video Introduction to Session Four

The learning journey sessions are offered in two parts, both of which are equally important. Please be sure listen to and/or download both:

Part One: Conceptual Discussion

Part Two: Meditation & Practice

Transcript Notes Session 4: Liberation from Self-Forcing

Session “Assignment”

There are two related aspects to this assignment: Noticing

Without trying to change anything in your behavior and without trying to let go of self-criticism and self-approval, I’d like you to being noticing, bringing attention to any habits of self-forcing.

This includes things like self-criticism and self-approval, self-rejection, justification, self-punishment, self-reward, the program of control, the threats and the rewards. Bring your attention to that. Just take note of it. And trust that as you become aware of these habits, something will shift…if it needs to.

The self-approval or rejection could be around your eating choices, or it could be something else in your life. You are not trying to fight these habits. You are not trying to go from conditional self-approval to controlling your conditional self-approval!

Instead, you are exercising the power of attention. Increasing Attention

Now, give attention to its “feeling-quality”. By that I mean, become familiar with the felt state of this tendency: the rush of self-approval when you do something “good” and the discomfort of self-rejection when you do something “wrong.”

Increase your awareness of times when you are doing this, and also take a few minutes before bed to scan through your day for anything that put you in that state.

Your homework is to do this every day, to loosen the hold of these habits. Remember: when you release self-forcing, desire becomes a reliable guide again.

Optional NAAS Subscription

This course has run as a DIY course, and you are welcome to do it that way. However, for many people it is more powerful to work the material with a group. My business partner and former wife Patsy and I host a network community called A New and Ancient Story (short for NAAS). It is an online network dedicated to reverence in communication. If you would like to participate in it in conjunction with this course, go to the community landing page and read the introduction and posting guidelines. If you feel resonant, you can join through additional subscription. Once you are a member, you will find archives of discussions on course forums on the left menu as well as participating in many features NAAS offers

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